{monday musings…}

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i have been a mama for almost 13 years. it’s a role that i love. that i identify with. it is me and i am it.

i also feel that i am more; that i want more…. i am not sure what… but i’m going to have fun figuring it out.

for now i am going to start working out what truly makes me happy.

 

i’m interested to know what makes you happy?

 

 

xxx

p.s i’ll be back later this week with an update of what makes me happy…

image: today i love

  • http://livingalittlegreener.blogspot.com.au/ Bruisemouse

    I just had this same conversation with a friend earlier today. What am I going to do when I grow up?

  • http://www.farmhousehome.com.au Catherine Bedson

    I have been trying to answer this question since I had children (now 19 & 14) and have finally found it with my blog, cooking, styling food and photographing it. I still feel like there is a piece missing from the puzzle though but like you plan to have fun figuring it out. Sit still and quiet and it will come to you.

  • http://brightspaceint.squarespace.com Sam Lennie

    Another mum of an almost teenager, it’s catching! I think it’s very healthy to want more from life, we are on this planet only once and I’m sure you’ll have fun working out what is next for you.

    The simple things make me happy – family, friends, laughter, sunshine, food, freedom, chocolate, spontaneity, surprises, new discoveries, travel – I’m sure I could go on……

    Have fun with this xx

  • http://www.blogperennial.blogspot.com carol – @perennial

    If this is a big picture question then I don’t know the answer, but if it is a ‘what makes you happy right now’ question, I can often answer – just this, what I am doing. I am delaying thinking about the big picture until my youngest is in school. Then I will see what happens.

    Looking forward to your update.
    Carol

  • http://jamiesaysdream.blogspot.com Jamie says dream

    I still don’t know what REALLY makes me happy, at 46 years old. That is not good! I’m thinking a lot about it right now.

    Hope you know a little better than me :-)

    Love Maria

  • http://www.colourliving.co.uk/blog tina

    Oh Leah…I sometimes feel so different to you all. Well, I am different, of course, but I mean really different! The reason is that I’m not a mother and have never been a wife or long term partner.

    I’ve spend the past 23 years figuring this out and have had much fun on the way. I do know what makes me happy but only because I’ve had the time and luxury to do so. You know the grass is always greener on the other side:)

    The only thing I can tell you is that it’s hard work to be really content and fulfilled but it’s so worth it. I find that at 48 I’m happier than I’ve ever been and really appreciate it so much. It’s often been a struggle but age really helps!!

    Dig deep my love. The answer is right in there. I promise! xx

  • http://inspirationcooperative.blogspot.com/ Theresa

    Oh, Leah, I have such similar feelings to what you describe above. I am trying to embrace my current role as a stay at home mama right now, and be fully present for that gift. However, I am searching for that “thing” you mention. Perhaps, we can help each other out and go through this journey together. I have loved reading everyone’s comments before me to see what they suggest; It’s very helpful. The “digging deep” and getting “still” sound like sound advice. In the meantime, I will follow Sam’s advice and just enjoy life’s small pleasures and treasures, really that’s what life is all about.

  • http://www.raspberryrainbow.com Cat

    Your blog is just as gorgeous as your IG feed.

    I only wrote a blog post this week about being so happy at the moment, now I have 3 hours to be “me” every day, and that involves sewing, crafting and creating. I am in such a happy, inspired place. I want this feeling to never end. I want this creativity and drive to stay with me as it is making me feel so happy and grounded and calm. Cat.

    • http://www.sangthebird.com.au leah

      thanks lovely cat. happy, grounded and calm sounds wonderful xx

  • http://www.stillpluslife.com Lauren

    I’ve been struggling lately too, as you probably know. I love it that we became mamas with in days of each other. Imagine that, 13 years ago, a world apart you and I were waiting to meet our boys at just the same time! Sometimes I feel that being Cal’s mom is the best work I’ve ever done, and like you, I know there’s more. I’m working on being happier and more authentic. I also think if I dig deep, I *know* what I want, I just need to be brave enough to reach for it. Whatever it is, I’m right there with you, Mama.

    • http://www.sangthebird.com.au leah

      it feels good to know you are here with me too xx